![]() ![]() She is an introvert but moves toward people the way a type 2 does steadily pushing forward towards the outcome they desire. I am not sure what I said 25 years ago, but Yoko Ono is a perfect example of the counter-culture social 285. It gives me a chance to add what many do not know about the sad type 2 that was lost in the dissemination of the Enneagram and needed to be added to the Enneagram literature. Question: Is Yoko Ono an Enneagram Type 4 or the Sad Type 2? Through her expertise in corporate executive coaching, personal development, and relationship coaching, she has helped many professionals in their walk through challenging times, particularly in the areas of identity searching, relationship building and career breakthrough.Īside from being a published author of 2 books, she has also been invited by several radio stations and magazines as an expert guest speaker to provide insights into Enneagram, workplace conflicts and relationships.©1995-2023 Katherine Chernick Fauvre: Originator of Tritype ® Besides a Bachelor Degree in Psychology (majoring in Communications), she also has a Diploma in Business and has done in-depth research and studies in the areas of Organisational Behaviour and Gender Communications, both in Singapore and Taiwan. ![]() She is a member of International Coach Federation (ICF) and Singapore Psychological Society (SPS). We look forward to hearing from you!Ĭindy Leong is a sought after bilingual (English and Mandarin) Enneagram Personality Coach and Corporate Trainer in Asia, who can help you make sense of your professional and personal relationships. If you feel affirmed by any of these messages and are aching to know more about yourself through the Enneagram framework, do contact us to find out how you can use your SkillsFuture credits to offset our course fees and when the next available course dates are. This will go a long way for them to see their real worth through their own eyes and not through the eyes of others. Affirm them through your words and do let them know what you appreciate about them. ![]() On that heartfelt note, I would like to say to everyone who may have a Type 2, 3 and 4 in their life: show them that they are loved for who they are and that they are enough. Appreciate them and with a grateful heart, tell them how much they mean to you in your own special way. ![]() Notice the people who have stepped up and have shown you that they love and see you for who you really are. To our Type 4s, I would like you to know that open your eyes (and your heart) to the ways that people in your life are already affirming who you really are. In a society where feelings are often brushed aside for efficiency, Type 4s often feel isolated and misunderstood. Type 4s often feel that they are unworthy of being loved – that their deep emotions causes people to leave them, instead of seeing their emotions as who they authentically are. You are worth the time to get to know and to be loved. Take a moment to stop and appreciate yourself. There is no need to achieve and do more to be deserving of love. From young, they believed that the love they get from their parents is linked to what they achieve, and that without these achievements, they are not worthy to be loved because of their weakneses and flaws.īut I would like to tell our Type 3s that you can be loved for who you are – that your flaws just make you human. The Type 3s are always on the move and when asked if they want to be loved for who they are, they take a really long pause. “It is okay to be loved for who you are, despite your weaknesses and flaws.” You are deserved to be loved because you are lovable in your own ways, and not because of the help you give. So here is my invitation for the Type 2s – start loving yourself more and see your own worth, despite others not needing you. This is also why when their help is rejected, they get defensive and stubborn in even acknowledging that the help they want to offer may not be the help that is needed at that time. However, this is where the 2s become intrusive and needy. They see that as the only way to justify their worth to be loved. “You are worthy to be loved for who you are, whether we need your help or not.”Īt a young age, the Type 2 learns that in order to get the attention and love they so badly crave for, they need to put themselves in a position to offer help to others around them. This week, we turn our attention to the heart-centered Type 2s, 3s and 4s. Last week, we focused on what messages the gut-centered Type 1s, 8s and 9s want to hear about themselves. ![]()
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